The High Calling of Motherhood Blog Tour



Having children was always my plan. In fact, when I was in college my college roommate and I joked about being there as plan B until plan A of being a stay-at-home mom fell into place.

When I found out that I was having our first child, I was so excited and as the time approached my fear was not necessarily in the process but in everything after.

Everything I thought I always wanted was happening and the reality was very different than the dream. To be completely honest, I was scared. I did not know what I was going to do.

Then all the normal mom questions fly through your head. Will I be good a good mother?  Will I know what to do when they need to eat in the night? What if they cry and won't stop? Most importantly, I wanted them to know about Jesus and I didn’t want to mess that up. 

There is a lot of pressure in being a mom. Pressures from family and friends, pressures from society, pressures from schools and it seems to be coming from all sides and the fear of failure can be immense.

In Chimene Shipley Dupler’s new book, The High Calling of Motherhood, she addresses three major areas of being a mother. We are taught to see our role as a mother from God's perspective, to live out that calling, and to take on this role with intention. 

My favorite thing about this book, aside from many other parenting books, is her consistency to stick to a biblical view. While emphasizing the family and family values, she beautifully inspires you to take back your God-given calling. 

She helps mothers embrace the role they have been chosen for and motivates them to be the women their children so desperately need.

The High Calling of Motherhood is written in three parts.
Part 1: The Orphan: Motherhood Abandoned
Part 2:  Changing Our Worldview: Embrace the Calling of Motherhood
Part 3: Impact and Influence for the Next Generation: Raising World Changers

Before I had children, I was a special education teacher and many people still ask if I am teaching. I tell them I stay home with my children. “Oh,” they may say as if that role were not as worthy. Many times, I have felt or been made to feel as if that were not the most important job I could be given. God’s view is quite different of who I am.

I have been chosen with the honor of being a mother. I am fully equipped to be able to parent with God’s grace. I have been called with a purpose and have been supplied with the grace needed to carry out this calling. Page 35

Our time with our children is limited and having the time to point them to Jesus while in our influence is critical. Through The High Calling of Motherhood we are encouraged to make this time intentional, impactful, and full of the joy and the love of Christ. This formation takes time and work. As parents, we must be willing to put in the time and work.

Parenting is hard work- simply because it is heart work. When we are invested in reaching a person’s heart, it is hard work. Creating a firm and solid foundation that can handle the storms and trials of life takes time. Page 126

Being mom is the best job and opportunity that I have been given. It is truly a gift from God. Through mothering, God has taught me so many things about myself and about His character as a parent. As believers, we are truly blessed to have the best example of parenting in our Heavenly Father.

Chimene Shipley Dupler, the founder of Passions4Moms, has done a wonderful job of encouraging mothers that they are not alone. She reminds us of the gift and joy that we have been given. She helps us to not look to the world for our view of motherhood and look to God because He has created us as mothers and keepers of His precious children.

Mothering is a role that we must use to leave a print on this world and the opportunity to create world changers out of the children we have been entrusted to care for.

We must never underestimate our power of influence for such a time as this. We are part of a story – God’s story – and our position of influence can absolutely change a family, a nation, a culture, or an entire generation. Page 15

The High Calling of Motherhood Releases May 1, 2017. You can pre-order it today by following the links below. 
For the next few hours, you can also enter to win a choice of two gifts. Follow the link below. The winner will get to choose between a custom made “World Changer” necklace by The Giving Keys {that is being unveiled at the Passion4Moms conference} or two tickets to attend the Passion4Moms conference being held in DC, May 5-6, 2017

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Chimene Shipley Dupler, Founder and President/CEO of Pink Polka Dot Productions and the Passion4Moms ministry, is a well-respected speaker and professional on marriage and parenting. Chimene loves the opportunity to help others achieve their goals and work through struggles to make their marriages, parenting, and life experiences fabulous. Passion4Moms continues to bless, encourage, and inspire mothers through conferences, speaking engagements, and other events.
Previously, Chimene worked on Capitol Hill in the United States Senate and with foster homes and residential treatment centers as a social worker. Chimene graduated from Baylor University with a B.S. in Child and Family Studies.
Chimene is most proud to be living out her passion for marriage and parenting daily, endeavoring to bring God glory as a wife and mother and living life to the fullest. Chimene and her husband currently reside in Washington, DC, with their three princesses. Chimene’s greatest passion in life—being a mother!


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A Living Hope: A New Day New Mercies &Sitting Among Friends #68


This is week 5 of us studying A Living Hope. I am so glad you are here. If you have missed any of the other weeks, you can catch up here by reading A Living Hope, A New Heart, A New Hope, and A New Covenant.

I love this opportunity to study Our Living Hope we have in Christ because I love to reflect, grow and learn more about Christ all the time. One of the most amazing things to me is that no matter how many times you have read Scripture because it is a living document based on a living God, it is always new and fresh.

My hope here is not necessarily that I always teach you something new but that you are encouraged to continue to dive into God’s Word and look at it with fresh eyes. Hebrews 4:12 reminds us that God’s Word is living and active. How awesome that God can breathe fresh life into it every time we open it.

One thing God can do is also breathe fresh life into is us.  

Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, "The LORD is my portion; therefore I will wait for him." Lamentations 3:22-24 (NIV)Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, "The LORD is my portion; therefore I will wait for him." Lamentations 3:22-24 (NIV)


When I was a teacher, I taught special education. One thing I always did was let my kids start over every time they walked into my door. They may have had a bad day or a bad half-hour, but on the next day, we started over. New day, new class, a new beginning.

I cannot say that I intentionally did this or if it was just who I was as a teacher. But the key to that was two-fold. If I held onto every little thing they did it and never gave them new chances, sometimes by the minute, it would have consumed me and it would have consumed them. There would have been no survivors.

These verses in Lamentations are so great at pointing at God’s great love and faithfulness toward us.

I know there are days that I do nothing but utterly fail. I mess up as a mom, as a wife, as a sister, as a friend, as a child of the king of kings. I say I am never going to do… again. Then ten minutes later I find myself doing just that.

But God does something amazing. He doesn’t just push a buzzer. 
AAAAAAAAAARG! He doesn’t just say you failed and drop the floor out from underneath you.

Hear this carefully. God provides you with new mercies every morning.
He is not waiting for you to walk through the door so He can slam it shut and yell get out.

He has compassions that NEVER fail. They are new EVERY morning.

Sometimes we get on ourselves. We don’t think that we deserve God’s love and sometimes feel we are unlovable and unworthy of God’s love or anyone else’s love.

Mercy means we don’t get what we do deserve. This verse says, without God’s great love, we would be consumed. The short definition of this word is finished. We would be finished. That is what we deserve.

His faithfulness. His glory. His Love for us. His compassion. His loyalty is eternal. Never-ending. Never-failing, Eternal Love of God. That is our portion.  Because today it is a new day. You have been offered something new. What are you going to do with it?But…

Because of God’s great and loving kindness, He gives us the mercy. He doesn’t just finish us off when we fail in epic proportions. He shows us compassion and offers it fresh every morning.

The reason God shows us this undeserving love is not based on us. It is based on who He is. It is based on His character.  He is merciful. He is the God of great love. His love is loyal and good.

But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions--it is by grace you have been saved. Ephesians 2:4-5. (NIV)

The reward is ours. He doesn’t just stop at not consuming us. He makes us alive. Because of Him. Because of His death on the cross and resurrection we, too, are able to pass from death to life.

Life in Christ does not just become effective when we are dead. Ephesians says God made us alive by grace through faith. It doesn’t end there because we are not just living here on this earth. We are given Christ as our portion. Our hope is in Him. Since He is our portion we can rest our hearts on the things not yet seen. He is an eternal God.

His faithfulness. His glory. His Love for us. His compassion. His loyalty is eternal. Never-ending. Never-failing, Eternal Love of God. That is our portion.

Because today it is a new day. You have been offered something new. What are you going to do with it?

Personal Reflections:

Do you give yourself new mercies every morning just as Christ gives to you?

How do you choose to celebrate Christ as your portion?

How does looking at life from an eternal perspective change your life or do you often find yourself focused on the things that are still seen?

What part of your life do you need God to pour new mercies on today? Do you actually believe He can and will take care of that part of your life? Do you need to relinquish anything you have been holding onto?

Before you go, if you would like to read my testimony from last week's testimony tour, read it here. The Testimony Tour: The Prodigal Daughter Returns. 

Thank you so much for joining me. It is always humbling to be standing before God sharing His great love for each one of us. If you have questions or would like to talk further about taking you relationship with Christ to the next level, you can email me at youresewtrendy@gmail.com
 
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A Living Hope: A New Covenant and Sitting Among Friends #67

The new covenant gives life (2 Corinthians 3:7).  It gives us a new hope (1 Peter 1:3). A new heart and a new spirit (Ezekiel 36:26). A hope in the Living God (1 Tim 4:10) that we can receive from nothing and no one else.



A New Covenant.

There are many questions that surround the new and the old. Out with the old in with the new. That saying can leave a bit of a sting. If we have the old or become the old. We don’t necessarily want it to be set aside because the new came along.

That is how many of the Pharisee’s felt as Jesus was telling them He had come to fulfill the law. The law (the old covenant) was what they knew. It had become their identity. Through it, they knew who they were. It was linked to their family heritage and it was to set them apart from the rest of the world. It would signify them as children of God.

It cannot be a surprise as to why Jesus rocked their world. He was essentially telling them, all they ever knew or understood was going to be turned around. Who and what they held so tightly to, needed to be made complete and it was going to come as something new.

What I didn’t understand was that being obedient was no longer just a chore, a to-do or an unachievable task but an opportunity to be pleasing to my Lord and give Him my worship.  It was freedom. It was a gift.
While the old covenant and the laws pointed us to our sin and the need for a Savior, the law was not designed to give us a new heart.

Hebrews 8:7 For if there had been nothing wrong with that first covenant, no place would have been sought for another.

The old covenant was established with Moses and is often referred to as the ten commandments. There were also many laws that were given to the people such as festivals, sacrifices, and purifications. You can find them in the first few books of the old testament.

Some are lead to believe that the laws are no longer good or appropriate for our time. We live under grace. While that is true, because Christ came to fulfill the law, all the laws are not obsolete. In Matthew 5 Jesus said I did not come to abolish the law but to fulfill it.

Christ made the law complete because He could give us a new conscience and a new heart. He would now write the laws on our hearts and put them in our minds.

I understand that many may be thinking we are free from the law. It is no longer relevant. While some laws had their own purposes, God’s law is not abolished.

What we have now in the new covenant.

Step away for a minute here with me. If you are a parent, you make rules and set boundaries. It helps them know how to navigate the world. When your child breaks the rules, there are consequences so they understand the depth of the importance of the rule.

As parents, we want our children to follow those rules not just because we said so, although we may say that, but we want them to follow the rules because we love them and gave them for their safety and growth. We want them to show that love to us by being obedient.

Before we know Christ as our Savior, we are living in rebellion to God. The laws are set so that we can see and understand how far away from a perfect God we are. They are for us to understand what sin is, as Paul explains in Romans 7.

They were never meant to perfect us but lead to Christ who does.

For a long time in my life, as you can read from my testimony here, I thought that rules were to make me perfect. What I found was that they were too hard to keep up with. So, I didn’t. I made my own rules, ones which I thought I could keep. Ones that satisfied my flesh.

I chained myself back to rules, even my rules. I chained myself to my own rebellion. I chained myself to my shame and found my worth in the comfort of those chains.

While all the while I could have been living free. I was given life in Christ but was choosing to go back to the path that leads to destruction. I was free to walk in Christ’s grace.

After all, He already knew I wasn’t perfect. Who was I kidding? It was not possible. It was never meant to be. Hold on to that truth.

The new covenant gives life (2 Corinthians 3:7).  It gives us a new hope (1 Peter 1:3). A new heart and a new spirit (Ezekiel 36:26). A hope in the Living God (1 Tim 4:10) that we can receive from nothing and no one else.What I didn’t understand was that being obedient was no longer just a chore, a to-do or an unachievable task but an opportunity to be pleasing to my Lord and give Him my worship.

It was freedom. It was a gift.

The new covenant that we receive as believers in Christ is not a checklist of being perfect. It is walking in grace and humbly allowing Christ to perfect us.

When we put our faith and trust in Him, we become His child. He loves us!

The boundaries and rules are for our safety. They are so we can continue to receive His blessings and see His glory in our lives.

The new covenant gives life (2 Corinthians 3:7)
It gives us a new hope (1 Peter 1:3). A new heart and a new spirit (Ezekiel 36:26). A hope in the Living God (1 Tim 4:10) that we can receive from nothing and no one else.

Christ has the power to change lives and I would love to talk to you about how He can change yours. Email me at yoursewtrendy@gmail.com

Personal Reflections:

Have you chosen to see the laws for what they are and learned to walk with Christ in obedience? In what areas, do you struggle? In what areas, can you celebrate victories?

How has living up to your list of perfections hindered your relationship with Christ?

Do you use chains in your life as a crutch or as an identity? Are you afraid to let them go because they are all you have ever known or you have become comfortable in them? As a believer, do you believe God can break those chains for you? 

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This week's featured friend is Natalie Venegas from Milk and Honey Faith. I am really excited to be sharing what Natalie has been doing on her blog because it is such a beautiful idea. She has created The Testimony Tour. This tour runs across 10 blogs and features amazing women sharing their testimonies all for the glory of God. Thank you so much for joining us, Natalie. I am glad you are here.























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The Testimony Tour: The Prodigal Daughter Returns

God is faithful and oh, so good. He like the Father in this story allowed me to repent and when I came running back to Him, He welcomed me with open arms rejoicing my return.


Thank you so much for joining us on the Testimony Tour. This is day two of the tour and you can check out Lori Schumaker from Searching for Moments here if you missed her post. 


My testimony may seem typical for a kid that grew up in the church. We went to church every weekend and every Wednesday night. I was trained in all the do’s and don’ts of the church. I was taught all the traditional Bible stories and had many scriptures hidden deep in my heart.

At twelve, I remember sitting in my room and pouring out my heart in prayer. Whatever else was going on in the day, I don’t remember. What I remember clearly is realizing that I was a sinner and I needed to ask God for forgiveness and to come into my life to save me.  

I would like to say something amazing happened that day, but on the outside, it didn’t appear that way. Everything seemed to continue as normal. I continued to do all the things a good church girl would do. I went to church faithfully and knew the right things to say at just the right time.

In my early teens when my life started to change, I was on automatic pilot in my Christian life and started doing things I wanted to do. Living up to the standards I was taught felt impossible. I wanted a free ride to do it my way.

I spent many years, my way. In fact, this continued until my mid-twenties. I always kept God on the backburner and like anyone who has bible knowledge but not a real relationship, I could pull it out and use it to my advantage.

The story of the prodigal son touches my heart because it is about a father who didn’t give up on his child after all he had done. The story can be found in Luke 15. 

There was a man who had two sons. The younger of the two sons told his father he would like to have what his father was going to give him as an inheritance. The father gave his son his portion and a few days later, the son left.

It’s not surprising someone given a free pass and a lot of cash squanders it away. Thinking he was just given the world and enough money to buy it he quickly finds himself broke. This son ends up working for a farmer and eating the pigs’ food before shamefully going back to his father to ask for work to get a bit of food.

I had a pretty easy life. I was loved dearly by my parents and family but I squandered a lot away doing the things I wanted to do. Any money that I had I used for myself and my own selfish desires. Whatever the latest whim I had, I satisfied.

I ended up living a pretty cushy life in Hawaii. I was teaching during the day and had plenty of money to indulge in, as Luke 15:13 calls, “loose living”.

When a person asks Christ to be their personal Savior, He says he will never leave them nor forsake them (Deuteronomy 31:8). 

I knew Christ was with me but I did what I could to not face Him. I tried running as far as I could. Honestly, I don’t how I would have survived had He not been there. 

I, unlike the prodigal son, never ran out of money. What I ran out of was spiritual satisfaction. No matter where I looked or how hard I tried to find satisfaction in the things of this world, I was left spiritually poor.

Then everything changed. God let me, like the prodigal son, fall into a pit, not just a pit of destruction, but a pit of self-loathing. I had despised this person I had become. I had great shame and by then, a large amount of baggage accumulated.

God is faithful and oh, so good. He like the Father in this story allowed me to repent and when I came running back to Him, He welcomed me with open arms rejoicing my return.

I would love to say that there was instant healing but God had a lot of work to do in my heart and mind. I had chosen to live for myself for a long time and those habits had to be broken.
Once we have decided to give our life to Christ we are free to obey Him. We are free to walk in His grace.
In Christ, I had to change. I had to begin to let Him perfect me. That kind of retouching doesn’t come easily. It meant facing the consequences of a loving Father so I could be restored in Him. It meant surrender.  It meant understanding that I was already forgiven and I had to forgive myself.

My life’s consequences were based on my choices to rebel against who I thought God was. Growing up, I thought God was all about rules and quite honestly, they were rules I could never live up to. In my own eyes, I was a failure.

Every time I broke another rule, I thought I was farther away from ever being truly forgiven. Being a person who strives for achievement, this kind of life seemed impossible to live. I don’t remember ever knowing or being told, it is impossible.

I tried living without Christ while living up to the standards I was taught.  After a while, I thought I had messed up so much that there was no hope. Why try to be perfect when you just can’t.

That is not the gospel, friends. The gospel tells us we are sinners and desperately need Christ. This world is temporary and to live forever with Him requires that we submit our will and our life to Him.

The rules and the do’s and don’ts, the squandering of our lives, leave us short next to a perfect God. He doesn’t expect perfection. He will perfect us through Him.

Once we have decided to give our life to Christ we are free to obey Him. We are free to walk in His grace. 

We are no longer bound by the rules. The rules were intended to point us to our sinful lives so we could recognize our need for a Savior. Does that mean we go on sinning? Trust me, it certainly does not! 
  
Life with Christ is about a daily relationship. A relationship where we rely on Him because we love Him and are not strong enough to do it all ourselves. It is about spending time with Him and knowing who He truly is based on His Word and not ideas we have devised about Him.

Being part of this Testimony Tour meant I would write about how I came to know Christ. How I came to know Christ was a process. It started for me when I was a child. But when I began to really “know” Christ was when I truly surrendered to Him. I learned who He truly was by studying the amazing words He has given us through the Bible.  

Through knowing Him and His constant grace, I have been given the gift of understanding who I am in Him. Today I can say I am an imperfect, loved, child of the King of my life. Thanks be to God!

If you would like to know more about giving your life to Christ, I would love to have that conversation with you. Feel free to email me at youresewtrendy@gmail.com

Thank you for joining me today.   

Please be sure to join my new friend, Tiffany Parry to continue The Testimony Tour. 



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Be Still

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Be Still My Friends! You can rest assure that God is in Control.

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Seeking God

Hope In Him Alone!

Hope In Him Alone!
Thank You, Lord, for deciding who I am!

Seek Him First! Today's Bible Reading

James 1:17
Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of Lights with whom there is no variation or shifting shadow.

It is of utmost importance that you know that Christ died for you. He died for all sinners so that our relationship with Him could be restored.

Because of His sacrifice on the cross we can have peace. Are you seeking more peace today? Peace of the soul can only be given through the redemptive power of Jesus Christ.

I hope that you, too, know the saving grace of an amazing God.
If you have questions about how to know more you can email me at youresewtrendy@gmail.com

2 Timothy 1:7

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